Four Roads

Dave Harvey, When Sinners Say “I Do”

Progress comes when we slip our theology into gear and find out what it can do. Let me offer four roads you can practice on. I’m confident if you can drive on these roads, you can get about anywhere you need to go in your marriage (63-75).

First: In humility, suspect yourself first.

Second: In integrity, inspect yourself [i.e., get the log out of your own eye].

Third: Admit that circumstances only reveal existing sin [they never cause it].

Fourth: Focus on undeserved grace, not unmet needs.